Imperfectly Perfect?

I want to know the person who lives in a manner that honors and cares for herself

but who also lives a life of loving kindness for others... not codependency, not unselfishly to the point of self-neglect

I want to know who gives of himself in a manner that looks too good to be true

but it isn’t, he really desires to take care of others... more than desire, though,

lives with honorable cost to himself

not a victim

not a con or a sham

not an illusionist

not mean

Does she exist?

Does he exist?

I can search for this man, this woman

or

I can be the best version of the very human being that I’m searching for